We often think that reputation depends on one bright deed or, conversely, on a loud scandal. But the truth is that its formation is influenced by little things in our daily behavior that we don't pay attention to at all. We leave a mark behind us every day in the way we communicate, keep promises, and respond to criticism. Think of any person you say you can trust. Most likely, it's not about heroic deeds. He just comes on time, keeps his word, treats others with respect – that's the magic of a good reputation.
Habits that ruin your reputation
- Constant delays. Even if you are an excellent specialist, people remember that you are always expected. - Promises without results. Reputation is destroyed the fastest when words are not backed up by deeds. - Sharpness in communication. One rude answer can ruin months of good experiences. - Concealment of mistakes. People forgive mistakes, but they don't like it when people try to deceive them.
What to do to strengthen your reputation
- Be sincere and open. Start the day with greetings to others, whether it's an elevator landing or an office, start a small talk and express support to those who need it. - Write down the arrangements. A simple "did I understand correctly that ...?" will save you from misunderstanding. - Listen carefully. When a person is really heard, it is felt and appreciated. - Keep your emotions under control. An impulsive social media post can cost more than it seems. - Support and give thanks. Public gratitude or a simple "thank you" form the warmest impression about you.
Main thing
The image of you is often formed from the ethics of your behavior. Every day we decide for ourselves which image we leave behind. Managing your own behavior is not so easy. The good news is that it's possible, and it's worth learning.